RIMMING - Out of the Closet! The Basics:

In describing rimming and other delights deriving from this ìforbiddenî zone that seems to simultaneously fascinate and repel, we'd have to say that anal stimulus is an integral and genuine part of our sexual nature. And bearing in mind that people tend to search out and then repeatedly enjoy pleasurable acts, the extremely erogenous anal zone has great potential to offer. You can bet you'll come back for more!

In concrete terms, this primal act is a part of the thousand and one ways of making love, in this case, by using the mouth to stimulate the hole.

Practising Rimming the Proper Way:

First, here are the basic facts about the anus:

Guess what - we all have one! So the pleasure available from stimulating this region can be experienced by everyone. The anus and the rectum are, like the clitoris in women, very erogenous zones. The anus has more nerve endings than the vagina's inner surface – but enough about women! Back to our primary concern!

As a result, the art of rimming requires deft touch, sensitivity, gentleness and generosity. Men who love to rim are usually greedy and gluttonous – if ever you catch one of these talented and passionate beasts, never lose his phone number. They're always in for a treat!

If you're giving, you can either use your saliva or a good tasting lubricant, or both. The anus will appreciate the slippery sensations of a wet environment. Better not to try, under any circumstances, to get your finger in there without using saliva or a lubricant. Got it?

Some Techniques:

Your best tool is your imagination... and a responsive pig - oops! - partner, willing to explore with you. Light up all your senses. If you want to see and hear him giving his ass to you, you need to let yourself go completely - give yourself over to what you are feeling and to what you're doing! Your creativity will take over and make plenty of options available to you. It all depends on the type and the degree of sensation you want him to feel.

As you may already know, the prostate is located in this area and can also contribute to his pleasure. Many prostate massagers are now available in to help enhance the sensitivity of this pleasurable organ . Your partner can also masturbate if he chooses while he enjoys your ministrations.

Start off by suggesting that your lover put himself into a comfortable and sexy position. For now, just enjoy the magnificent view. Get closer and nuzzle the tender skin. Go on teasing WITHOUT touching the anus...

Titillate by brushing your nose against the surrounding area, by nibbling the delicate skin of the butt cheeks, gently probing the anus outline with the fine tip of your tongue. Linger for a few seconds in that zone between the anus and the tailbone - the sensitive skin here must be explored!

Try out some techniques to tease his hole: lightly flick it with the tip of your tongue - guaranteed reaction! Never lay down one's hand, keep the good cards for later. The tongue is a versatile muscle. Make use of it!

Loosen Him Up!

Would you like to show your partner how gentle and dedicated you are?
After these playful preludes, soften your tongue for a more lush and lascivious feel. With your moist tongue, tenderly and slowly lick that hole for the very first time. His whole body will writhe! Having teased his butt since the very beginning, your partner is aching for this moment. Isn't that what you wanted to see? Men, they're all the same!

Now, harden your tongue into a dome shape and rub it against his rose bud. The roughness of your taste buds will result in a new pleasurable sensation.

Change technique again by narrowing the tip of your tongue. Gently push and rotate your tongue to stretch and open the anus. While doing so, why don't you give yourself better access to his bite size ring. Spread the cheeks and, with the forefinger and thumb of each hand, spread the skin around the anus to expose a bit more this prime rib.

Again, enjoy the view, the colours, textures and inviting pink folds.

Is your mouth watering already? Of course it is! The feeling of those textures on your tongue will delight you as much as the effects will delight his fragile and sensitive mucous membranes.

Tease him more by applying a gentle on/off suction. For sure you'll elicit some sweet groans.

Light Him Up!

If, after all that stimulation, his body language is telling you he's ready for more, – you lecher! – pick up the pace a little to show him another side of your gourmet talents – learn how to enjoy good things in life! Give yourself over to his pleasure.

With your tongue firm and extended, probe his hole further... if he grants you entrance, that surely means that your gentleness and commitment to duty is hitting where it counts. He's getting what he deserves! Enjoy the fact that your man surrenders totally to you. Savour that moment.

Now, think of your tongue as a finger. It becomes hard, stiff and powerful. It's now time to prove your energetic virility! With your mouth directly on his hole, push your tongue into the warm depth of his body... Be ambitious. Let your imagination go wild: push, rotate, flick, rub, suck, and gently nibble, in and out, back and forth. Finish him off!!!

Doing all that, you'll be consumed by the sensation of being wrapped in his warm abyss of flesh. Moreover, you'll feel his sphincter contract with pleasure around your tongue.

Pros and Cons:

The obvious con for rimming is most probably the negative connotations around assplay. This mental hurdle keeps reminding us that we are playing 'mouth to ass'. The possibility of improper hygiene – the 'fecal connection' – forces us to face the reality that this orifice is an exit for human waste by-products. And the risks for STDs are plentiful. However, rimming remains a desirable practice for a lot of reasons. First, it provides natural lubrication that's a sexy prelude to intercourse and, in addition, when the recipient is clean, rimming can be a fabulous and sexy moment that both partners will learn to both give and receive.

In conclusion, never tell your mom about your sexual proclivities. She'll surely cut you off without a penny to your name! Instead, give her the latest in exotic recipes you've discovered: the Toad-in-the-Hole.

By gassien