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Tim's How-To Guide to Self-Sucking

Self-sucking is very incredible.

I am able to do it and have done it many times.

If you have a slim body and no health conditions that limit your body moment then most likely you're able to do it. The question isn't if you can do it; it's if you know how to do it.

Self-sucking is a very intense form of exercise.

It's true there're some guys who are extremely flexible and can suck themselves on command. However, most guys can't do it like that. Your back is something you don't want to mess with. In order to self-suck you have to relax your back muscles and that can take some time to do.

One thing you don't want to do is to force yourself into sucking without preparing your back muscles.

You can very easily do damage to your back if you don't do it right. I've done it wrong before and have been in pain for a few days.

I find the best way to prepare your back is by sitting in a very comfy chair which has excellent back support and put yourself in a relaxing position. It will probably take a few hours. I usually just surf the Internet while I'm waiting and after a while I'm good to go. A wooden chair is not recommended. If you have an executive chair that should work quite well.

Never try to suck yourself first thing when you wake up in the morning.

Your body is very tense when you first wake up. You need to be up for a while and allow your body to wake up. Taking a nice hot shower could be helpful. You don't want to eat anything heavy before sucking yourself because that affects your stomach and makes it very difficult for you to get into the proper position.

Self-sucking is fun; but it's not recommended that you do it for extended time periods.

You can do serious damage to your back if you do it for too long. How far a person can suck is different for everyone. Some guys can suck really far down on their cock while other guys can only suck the tip of their head. It requires practice and very relaxed back muscles. I've been able to suck really far down on only a few occasions. Most of the time I can't go down very far.

When you self-suck, choose a soft place to do it.

A bed or an armchair that can be lowered is ideal. You might even want to rest your back up against the side of your bed. You don't want to do it against anything that is hard especially a wall. You should have your back rested up against something soft. You don't want to be in the middle of your bedroom floor because you have nothing to support your back and your butt is also on a hard floor (unless you're using a pillow) and that can cause you some pain. Make sure you're supporting your back with something soft behind it.

Keep in mind if you are doing it while sitting on your bed that if your bed sinks down a lot when you sit on it that will make it more difficult for you to suck yourself. You need to have your legs and your butt evenly placed on the area you choose to do it. For example, if you try using a regular chair, your legs and butt won't be at the same level unless the chair can be lowered. You need to be in a position very similar to a toilet; your butt and legs have to be on an equal level. The bedroom is probably the best place to do it.

Hopefully my knowledge and experience will help some of you experience the joys of sucking. I use to think that I couldn't do it, but I was determined to do it and eventually my determination paid off. I just keep trying and one day I got it.

Just remember to relax your back muscles. Some guys have landed in the hospital and have had long-term damage done to their back. You don't want that to happen, so do it gently. If it hurts, then try doing it in a different position or relax your back muscles more.

I'll be happy to give you a demonstration, Jonno, when I come visit you this summer!

Tim (timandrew1976)

Ted's Note: Tim was an early member of CanadianGay. I haven't heard from him in years, but at one time he even posted a vid of himself sucking the tip of his cock.